Use the first meeting as an opportunity to share your feelings or discuss your everyday activities. If you want to alter the conversation later, compliment her attractiveness or sense of style. It might make her more likely to pay attention to your behavior and bedtime. She will appear to be more approachable than previously. Instead of assuming that you will be like her previous clients, she might treat you with affection as a friend. When you book her regularly, these kinds of things make more sense.